I’m so in love with my boyfriend and he’s a nice person but sometimes he isn’t kind with words or to other people. It didn’t use to get to be but lately it’s just been getting to me. He is so unrepentant when you call him out and it’s screaming red flag. I really do want him to change but I’m tired cos everytime I try to talk to him about it, he always twists it in a way that I’ll reason with him and I’ll now be wondering why I wasn’t okay with it or angry that why did I even bring it up because it’ll turn to lecture 🙄