My boyfriend doesn’t make me feel good about myself. This caused issues sometimes ago when I was getting attention and compliments from this other guy, my boyfriend said I was seeking validation and that the guy is just sexualizing me. I gained a lot of weight recently and outside people tell me I look good and getting bigger in the right places, but in the house, all my boyfriend seem to pay attention to is my tummy. He doesn’t say anything but I see his looks and I don’t like it, I have become self aware and I’m now wearing big big clothes and I don’t feel sexy anymore 😭