My relationship of three years ended recently, all because I paid him an unannounced visit and before you ask no! he wasn’t with another woman at the time I got to his house. He just left me messages warning me never to visit unannounced after I left (we’ve been together for the longest and I visit unannounced on a norms sometimes just cook in his absence. No bad intentions just to surprise and put a smile on his face)but since his seeing a problem with that right now we done. well he didn’t say we’re done but of course you know deep down when you both aren’t on same level any longer.