I met this nice unmarried man in his late 40s in March. He gave me full access to his house, his phone, linked me up with his mom abroad, and spent heavily on me …then he abruptly cut ties with me months later. I was confused but moved on with my life. Going through our old texts today I just noticed he started acting weird only after I asked for an STI test before we had sex. I didn’t notice it at the time. Now it all makes sense.