I met my girlfriend in church and we’ve been together for over a year. Last night I was going through her phone and stumbled on a list she made of names of all the guys she has slept with, I was so pissed because I saw about 115 names there. I planned to keep quiet but I couldn’t because I didn’t find my name there. I confronted her and she told me the nonsense I do when we have sex doesn’t count.