This guy I’m dating said a lot of words to me, they didn’t get to me at first but now I feel like I’ve lost the confidence in me to do things. People don’t know how words really get to people when said either out of anger or jokingly. It feels like I’m useless and I’m not even useful to anyone. I’m sure he didn’t think those words would get to me this way but they did. I’ve been so sad , I really want to get over this.