I’m stuck between an ex I’m in love with but can’t marry because I don’t want the heartache of being a chief’s wife and a boyfriend I’m not attracted to (physically) but can eventually marry. Both spend on me equally although my present boyfriend loves me so much🤦🏽‍♀️. Makes more sense to stick with him but since my ex came back I almost can’t stand my boyfriend touching me. Sense vs emotions wahala😩😣