Realizing that you’ve been a bad mother with badly behaved children is very hard. Our youngest got scalded by hot food because I was running everywhere after my husband repeatedly told me to make him stay one place. He ran into a server at a restaurant and the food landed on him. My husband won’t even look at me. I feel so guilty. My boy is currently fighting for his life.
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If I said I’m a bad mother. I am. Typed in a rush and worded wrongly. I’m that mother that says things like “leave him; he’s a just a child”. ‘Twas a business dinner with my husband’s associates. It was my job to look after him and I chose to let him run around aimlessly. My husband is a great father; he caught him countless times that evening and told me to hold him and I let him go every single time. I tried to lie and put the blame on the server and CCTV caught me.
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He’s a good husband and even greater father. We were at a business dinner with his associates. He caught my boy countless times and begged and brought him to me and I CHOSE to let him go wandering around. I’m that mother that frowns when people even his father try to scold my child. I tried to put the blame on the server but CCTV showed otherwise so if I say I’m a bad mother and it’s my fault. It is. This is a light bulb moment for me. Let me acknowledge my wrong.