It’s funny when people say things like ‘I don’t want to contact STD, so I use it as an avenue to cut people off’. These days STD are not contracted from sleeping with people. They are viral loads that shed which can be gotten by body fluids (sweat, spit, etc), sharing utensils, blood transfusion… One needs to be careful but can never be too careful especially when being asymptomatic is a thing. Get educated, stop the STD/STI shame.