He promised me marriage before he left for the state, I became celibate for 3 years, told my family he said we would get married once he’s back. He came in October and we spent 2 days together, he promised to come see my dad before he goes back to the state and that was it. I didn’t hear from him again, how do I tell my people that the proposed marriage meant not hold again. I am sure he fooled me.