Married my wife because she ultimatumed me. I agreed because there was no one else at the time. She is good for me because she is not troublesome or aggressive but our energy does not match nor complement each other. She deeply resents me because I don’t fit into her vision of her ideal marriage. I am not happy and feel stuck in the middle because I don’t know whether to leave or stay. The prospects either way are not particularly desirable. I can’t move forward or go back. My kids are a great consideration. I feel like I am slowly dieing inside piece by piece.