My boyfriend of almost 4 years is in Camp, ever since he left it’s like he took the fun part of me with him. I’m just counting months till he comes even though since he left, i have been having very serious suitors but as usual I keep rejecting and sometimes tell them I’m engaged or in a very serious relationship of almost 4 years. Most of them laugh and try to discourage me by telling to leave him that he won’t marry me. In dismissal I tell them I love my boyfriend so much and can’t imagine myself marrying someone who is not my friend ( I trust my boyfriend but what if they are right?)