Dear soon-to-be mum-in-law, you’re sweet but i didnt come to this world to suffer. You gotta start reducing your expectations on how you want me to do things in your house. Using soda to wash plates is bad enough but I’ve never pounded yam in my father’s house all my life, I’m not gonna start now just because i’m marrying into your family. I can do the dishes after you’re done though😘, I’ll manage the peeling of my skin from using soda, but I’m not pounding.