About three years ago, I took my then boyfriend to introduce to my mum. He saw my sister, and went after her, married her. And I said so many things out of anger and pain. Things like she’d never be happy, she’d bury all her kids, and they will feed from hand to mouth. He lost his job with an oil company, started taxi, had an accident and has been bed ridden. Prior to the accident she had two miscarriages and the one she carried to full term died an hour after delivery. Now I’m scared if what I said is what’s wrong, and how do I go about reversing it.