I’m a young girl in an affair with a divorced 40 year old man with 2 kids who I think is manipulating me. He claims to love me and always tries to talk to me everyday despite me ignoring him for 3 months but he never buys me nice stuff despite having the cash and he has no future plans for me. I don’t want to leave him because he’s too good in bed and I’m lonely and yet, I also don’t want to settle for less.