My girlfriend had a baby but I wasn’t aware she was pregnant throughout the 9 months. I was called fews day after she gave birth and I accepted the child out of God’s fear because I could have denied the child if I wanted to. Few months ago she told me her pastor said we can’t marry and this really brought me down. The problem now is I want the baby to be with my parents but she doesn’t want that and I want the best for my son. I don’t know what to do. You might want to ask why I wasn’t aware of the pregnancy, I was having my NYSC program then and that’s why I wasn’t aware.