My mother is in her 50s and still married to my dad. However she’s a side chick to a younger man in his 30s who has a girlfriend and a child. She gets so miserable whenever he ignores her to focus on his own girlfriend. She takes her frustrations out on us because of him when they argue. It’s disgusting and I’m losing so much respect for her. My dad is a worse case but that’s a secret for another day. I pray my marriage never gets so stale.