Me and this guy started dating like few months back. What annoys me is that when we plan on seeing and stuff, I have to be the one to call to be sure if the plan is still on, I have to call to tell him I’m on my way, I’m the one to talk about it the next morning ( I have to travel from a state to another so connoters should get what I mean). He doesn’t even act like he cares. Is this a red flag because to be honest, I’m not cool with this behavior of his. I told him about this in March and he made it seem like I’m saying rubbish, he just waved it aside but this gives me serious concerns when we plan on seeing and he just gets nonchalant about it.