Sometimes I wish I could change the hands of time. 6 years ago , I was single, doing well in my job and contented financially until this thing called marriage crept in. Now no job, no spouse (not dead, but out sampling vagina) and worst case my business not picking up . Had job offers I can’t take because of my kids. Really tired . I now understand why some mothers left their children in care of extended family. I hope and pray I don’t take drastic action.