Learnt a great lesson about tolerance and patience . The story of Maryam Sanda reminded me of myself a few years back when I caught my husband cheating on me with my secretary . The most painful thing was he told my secretary how wack I was in bed and how I snore at night . The idiot secretary still says yes ma to me in office when I’m sure she mocks me in her mind . I was really hurt and devastated and I truly wanted to kill him that night because I had everything planned out already . I’m happy I’m in a better place now . It’s better to be single than to die hanging .