I have kids and I earn a little above 200k . My husband is currently out of job, he’s been out of job for a long time. Most times I wish I could just get money from other guys but they always ask why I can’t collect from my husband or say something like, I can’t give you money cos I don’t want your husbands trouble. It’s hard to say he’s out of job to people , it’s embarrassing. But I wish I had help tho. I pay for practically everything and at the end of everything I’m left with like 30k for transportation and feeding for the month. It’s like I’m working just to be recycling this shit. God help me