I don’t think I’m in love with my boyfriend of 4 years anymore. He’s sweet and still a darling but I’m just not that into him anymore. I don’t want to hurt him because he’s a genuinely good person and he’s still crazy about me but I am not happy. I feel like I lost my identity in the relationship and only just finding myself. Our relationship is stifling me, even our sexual chemistry has reduced. We used to have sex a lot but now, the idea doesn’t excite me anymore. I feel so trapped 😭.